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Nobody's Thinking About You

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  Long Ago when I was in insecure twenties, i met a clever, independent, creative, and   powerful women in her mid seventies, who offered me a superb piece of life wisdom. She said "We all spend our spend our twenties and thirties trying so hard to be perfect,  because we are so worried about what people  will think of us. Then we get into our Forties and Fifties , and we finally start to be free, because we  decide that we don't give a damn what anyone think of us. But you won't be completely free  until you your sixties and seventies , when you finally realize this liberating truth..............  "Nobody  was ever thinking about you, anyhow."  They aren't, They weren't, They never were..... People are mostly just thinking about themselves.People don't have time to worry about  what you're doing , or how well you're doing it, because they are all caught up in their  own dreams. People's attention may be drawn to you for a mome...